Lessons from Love

1. Don’t act as if you really know who your partner is. Sometimes during the first half of relationship, people tend to show good deeds and nothing but the good deeds. As much as possible, they don’t want to argue much. But after the peak of the relationship, they’ll just get used to it and arguments were like normal stuffs.


2. Don’t be possessive coz you don’t own anything, you just borrowed a lot. All the things we have are not our possessions (we never own anything). Those were just borrowed things for us to nurture them and for us to grow as a person. To give us lesson for us to learn.

3. “Do not do unto others what you don’t want others do unto you” (the golden rule in life and love). Don’t hurt someone when you don’t want to get hurt. Don’t play with someone when you don’t want to be taken for granted. Don’t give false hope to a person, those fruitful words can easily be misinterpreted. Sometimes, when fate pays back it was like you are torn into pieces, your soul will be tormented and your whole life will be disastrous.

4. Don’t hesitate to give everything once you are committed. When we commit ourselves to someone, we are bound to do one thing and one thing alone and that is to give our everything at our best so for in case that break-up-day comes, we know for a fact that we give our 100% and we did our very part. . But sometimes we tend to regret at the end. Regret that there is nothing left for us. Well then I guess giving everything is an optional thing but being rational is enough reason for us to always bite into the bright side of everything. When you are committed, always be contented. Try to settle with what you had. When you commit yourself, always bear in mind how to be committed.

5. Don’t try to spend times with someone when someone else’s name kept on resounding in your mind. Stop playing around. Don’t mess up when you don’t know how to clean them up. Stop fooling anyone, most especially yourself. Some people do think that to be even is to be fair and to be fair is to revenge, but how could they possibly make revenge if their special someone left. Is it a reason for them to find kind-hearted, vulnerable and everything-worthy just to play with? Is it enough reason for anyone to make someone fall in love with them then eventually dump them and leave them behind with no reasons at all? By doing so, will they even find the happiness that everybody is searching for? Will they feel how be taken cared of? How to be loved? And how to be treasured like you are the most precious stone ever? Will they even find their way out of the loneliness they are in? Will they feel the warmth of a loving caress? Will they experience the wonderful and fascinating things and feelings of being taken cared of responsibly by someone you really love?